In life many a times we all do
feel low… Sometimes it’s just the circumstances which make us feel this way and
at times… the situations. But what matters is… how these situations and
circumstances mould us as a person.
It was one of those days when
everything seemed wrong to me. I questioned my self about why was all that
happening to me… Did I do something wrong to anyone…then why me??… Relations
seemed confusing… people became different… some were for real so stayed rest just
changed their ways.
One after the other days passed by…
and I experienced - difference…
From being the chirpy little girl…
I started staying quiet. Every time something or the other kept occupying my
mind. Long back then I was a kid who used to bounce all over the place… but now
even to talk to strangers made me uncomfortable…It was all too complex… The
feeling that am changing was hard to believe.
In no span of time I realized I
have changed… and have become a completely different person. Till here I didn't know was it for good or for bad…is this going to help me or make my situation
even worse… Everything changed except the faith I had in myself and my
schooling. It may sound a thought from an old school but the fact is they
taught me to respect the other individual… respect emotions… understand the
other person as an individual like you… The ones around me have success but not
the humanity that I do. I realized… this
is what is missing in this world today but I have it in me. The thought in
itself is so beautiful!!!
Before, I used question those
situations and times but today I thank them. It was a testing phase which was really
harsh and as well as complex. But what I learnt out of those difficult times
was… a lot of patience …every time there is a more complex situation… more
patient I became… I trusted myself…
It takes a lot time and patience
to nurture that kind of beauty. The other beauty can be maintained through
creams and lotions but the heart or the soul that one has makes all the
difference. All the hard times and the experience out there is what make one
beautiful! its difficult to find or have the heart which deep inside knows it
all all, has seen it all but still doesn't know how to hurt any one but to
forgive and keep going.
More than the destination it’s the
journey that matters! After all beautiful people do no just happen…
